There are many perks to being on top when you’re having sex, but the most important one is that you can control your own pleasure, moving in a rhythm and at a speed that pushes all the right buttons for you. Depending on the sex position, you’re also in control of the depth at which your partner enters you – a huge benefit if you ever experience pain during sex and need to take things slowly in the beginning.
Other great incentives include: your boobs will look great, your partner’s hands will be free to use as you instruct (boobs, bum, waist are all sensual spots for them to sit) and your hands will also be free to either stimulate yourself or your partner (depending on how charitable you’re feeling).
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Luckily there are a host of positions to put you in the driving seat – three of which are described below. Ready to take control and look after your own pleasure? Try one or all three of these girl-on-top sex positions tonight and get ready to reap the rewards.
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3 Girl-On-Top Sex Positions
BENEFITS: Dual stimulation for you.
Have your guy lie on his back and bend one of his legs, keeping the other outstretched. Straddle the raised leg with a thigh on either side and lower yourself onto his member so that your back is facing him. Hold his knee and use it for support as you rock up and down. Press your vulva hard against his upper thigh, rubbing as the feeling dictates until you reach orgasm.
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BENEFITS: Puts you in the ultimate control and provides great G-spot stimulation.
If you’re feeling adventurous, from the standard girl-on-top sex position, move to the edge of the bed and have him lie back with his head and shoulders on the floor. Stabilise yourself by placing your hands on his thighs and propping your feet on the bed. The blood will rush to his head creating mind-blowing sensations as he climaxes.
The Hot Seat
BENEFITS: Good G-spot stimulation.
Ask him to sit on the edge of the bed or on a chair with his feet on the floor. Turn away from him and back up onto him, sitting between his legs. You can ride back and forth by pushing off the chair arms or pressing up with your feet. Control the angle of entry by arching your back and pressing your buttocks into his groin. While doggy-style is about his dominance, The Hot Seat puts you in the driver’s seat. You can also reach under with your hand and stimulate the base of his penis, scrotum and perineum. Meanwhile, ask him to reach around and stimulate your nipples.
Excerpted from the Women’s Health Big Book Of Os, on sale now.
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